A Young Man’s Journey of Finding a Soulmate

Currently there are around 7 billion people living in Earth. Around 3.33 percent or 250 million of them are living in the United States.  Los Angeles’ local census shows a population of 3.858 million citizens. Half of them are female, and there is a good chance that in these million pretty ladies, there is a girl waiting for me.

(I don’t have that delusion of grandeur of dating girls like Emma Watson or Scarlet Johansson, though.)

I am hopeless romantic, and that is indeed a Top Secret. My friends will tease me to death if they know my not-so-dirty little secret. Aged 22, my love for sports did not help me become famous to girls when I was in college.

To avoid public humiliation from my nasty friends, I ventured alone in my own search for my next girlfriend. But where on earth will I start? Without fear of the unknown, I went to our living room, opened the lapto, and began prospecting on social networking sites.

One of the stupidest ideas that humankind invented is the word soulmate. This is among one of the ideas that I don’t believe in. Since my high school days, my classmates are playing a find-your-soul-mate game on school fairs. It was a nightmare, and it still haunts me until now!

According to a website, 73 percent of Americans believe in finding a partner through destiny. Really? Then why is it that America has among the largest percentage of divorce in the world?!

After debating with myself, I wasn’t able to even type a word on the internet dating site. I was exhausted and felt more hopeless. It’s like the end of the world for me. I am yearning the experience of love, like Maroon 5’s She Will Be Loved. I am, too, will be loved.

Then, a few moments, I decided to go a sitio Hispano (Hispanic site) for an astrological guide. I searched for the daily horoscope, which I found in no time. Then, I browsed on the day’s Horoscopo diario (daily Horoscope) and read. I searched for some clues, and I went to the nearest bar to unwind and search for a date.

It was a lively evening and there are many people who are spending their night to relax. I noticed that the ladies outnumbered the men. A local band went inside and sang, so I grabbed a seat and ordered a beer.

As I enjoyed the show, a young lady approached me out of nowhere and chatted with me. It turned out that she is a regular customer at the bar and she’s looking for a nice and decent man.

Fifteen minutes of funny and witty talk turned out to be the best moments of my life. The next day, we met again. We are still dating, but I am hoping that she could be the one; the soul mate that I am waiting for.

8 Key Factors to Have a Better and Stronger Relationship

Do you feel like you are drifting away from your partner? Do you feel like you are the only one who is constantly trying to put it together? Being in a relationship can be difficult and stressful.  It is a good thing that there are useful tips that can actually make it stronger and happier.  It’s time to read through this article and apply it in your own situation.

1.  Communication is the key.

Communication is very important.  This is actually the number one factor that strengthens any relationship through time.  You should learn to talk to one another and be able to work things out.  If this is something not visible, then both of you can never move forward and your problems will never be fixed.  It seems a little bit cliché, but it is a necessity!

2.  Affection.

Another key ingredient to make your relationship last is being affectionate with each other!  It may be as simple as holding hands while you are out shopping or giving a few kisses during a movie.   You really have to show your desires for each other. 

3.  Having Sex.

It may seem like sex is really not that significant to a lot of people, but since you are looking for tips on how to make this work, then consider this an essential!  It is through this that the two of you are able to express your love and get close and comfortable with each other.  Indeed, intimacy is where it all boils down.

4.  Discuss your problems.

Do you remember how communication was aforementioned a while back? Well, this ties right into it!  Having a discussion with your partner is one way of making your bond stronger.  Do it before anything gets really heated, it makes things so much better.  Give it a try guys!

5.  No family interference.

Families can really be fantastic but sometimes they can actually interfere too much.  That is why you have to limit how much you tell them about what’s happening between the two of you.  You don’t need each and every one’s opinion regarding your love life.  So keep the family interference to a minimum!

6.  Commitment on both ends.

It is very vital that both of you commit to this relationship.  There is one astrological site, Sitio Hispano, which talks about the three main factors on how to have a lasting marriage.  Surprisingly, commitment was one of them. 

7.  Same future plans.

You really have to make sure that you are on the same page when it comes to planning your future.  Does he/she want to get married? Do you want to have kids? Yes! These are just some of the things that both of you must take into consideration.  If your partner refuses to share what’s on their mind, then you can try some free La Tarot card readings found in the internet  -- they might enlighten you with what your future holds. 

8. Same moral or beliefs.

Finally, have the same morals and beliefs.  It tends to be really difficult if you are going to be with someone that doesn’t have the same practice as you do.  That is why you really have to make sure that both of you are on the same boat with that.